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Ralph and Ellen
Invite you to share with us the most momentous day as we exchange our marriage vows.
Friday, NOVEMBER 20, 2026
at 1:00 in the afternoon.
WELCOME TO OUR WEDDING WEBSITE
With grateful hearts and joyful anticipation,
we invite you to share in the beginning of our forever.
On November 20, 2026, surrounded by the people we love and guided by our faith, we will exchange our vows and begin our life together as husband and wife.
This website was created to share the details of our special day and, most importantly, to welcome you into this beautiful chapter of our love story.
Your presence, prayers, and love have made our journey all the more meaningful. It would be our greatest joy to celebrate this once-in-a-lifetime moment with you.
Here’s to love, faith, and a lifetime of beautiful beginnings.
With love and gratitude,
RB and Ellen
Please use our hashtag to help us document our special day!
#toELLENfinity&RBeyond
Our Love Story
Every love story begins somewhere.
Ours began sometime in 2023, with two strangers who happened to meet on Facebook Dating.
There was no grand moment.
No love-at-first-sight.
No idea that this would be the beginning of forever.
Just a simple conversation… and eventually, a simple name we gave each other:
“Beshy.”
We became friends.
We talked about everything—the lives we were living, the people we loved, the dreams we were chasing, and the heartbreaks we were trying to survive.
We were simply two people who happened to be there for each other.
We talked every day, laughed together, listened to each other’s stories… but neither of us ever imagined that we would one day become us.
Until life showed us why we had found each other.
When her father was in the ICU, he was there.
When her heart was broken, he listened.
And when his own heart was hurting, she stayed.
Through the difficult days, the tears, the disappointments, and the moments when the world felt a little too heavy, they found comfort in each other.
Two people who were both broken somehow became each other’s safe place.
And somewhere between the conversations, the late-night stories, the laughter, and the healing…
friendship became love.
They didn't fall in love because everything was perfect.
They fell in love because, even when life wasn't perfect, they had each other.
What began as two strangers became best friends.
Best friends became each other’s home.
And two hearts that never expected to find love…
found forever.
Now, after all the chapters that brought them here, they stand at the beginning of their greatest one yet.
Because sometimes, the most beautiful love stories don't begin with “Once upon a time.”
Sometimes, they begin with:
“Hi, beshy.”
And somehow…
that becomes forever.
Ellen & RB
November 20, 2026 🤍
1 Corinthians 13:7
“Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
Finer Details
Dress Code
PrincipaL Sponsors
Formal Attire
Gents: Black suit with tie and pants
Ladies: Long dress in Champagne or Gold
Guests
Semi-Formal
We invite our guests to celebrate with us in shades of Champagne, Taupe, Mocha, Dusty Rose, Sage Green, and Soft Gold.
You may glam up in these shades but your smile is the best you can wear!
Note: Please avoid wearing White.
Gift Guide
With all the blessings that God poured out on us we cannot ask for more. Your presence and prayers are all we request. But should you still believe that a gift is worth giving, monetary gifts for our future would be much appreciated.
Snap and Share
Capture every special moment, whether candid, sweet, or wacky!
Don’t forget to tag us and use our wedding hashtag to share the love.
We can’t wait to see your photos! 📸💖
#toELLENfinity&RBeyond
Reminders
Be on time • Finish the event • Enjoy and have fun
The Venue
Frequently Asked Questions
RSVP
As much as we would love to accommodate all our friends and family, we have a limited number of guests. Please understand that this event is strictly by invitation only. Guests not found on the guest list provided will not be allowed to enter.
The favor of a reply is required on or before October 30, 2026.
I said "NO" to the RSVP but I had a change of plans-I can attend now! What should I do?
• Please check with us first. Unfortunately, we have a strict guest list.
• Kindly inform us if your schedule clears up, so we can try to accommodate you.
• If seats become available, we will let you know as soon as possible.
• Please do not attend unannounced, as we may not have any available seats for you.
Do we really need to RSVP? We already said "YES" to the couple.
Yes, please. We will be needing your formal RSVP to consolidate guest details and finalize the headcount for catering and seating purposes.
Is there parking space available for my car?
Yes, there is parking available for everyone at the venue. However, please take note that it is first come, first served basis, so you might not want to be late.
When is the appropriate time to leave?
This event took us months to plan, and we want to celebrate it with the people that are very dear to our hearts. We want you to have fun! Celebrate with us until the end of the program!
How can I help the couple have a great time during their wedding?
- Pray with us for favorable weather and the continuous blessings of our Lord as we enter this new chapter of our lives as husband and wife.
- RSVP as soon as your schedule is cleared.
- Dress appropriately and follow our wedding motif.
- Be on time.
- Follow the seating arrangement in the reception.
- Stay until the end of the program.
- Join the activities and enjoy!
May I invite a "PLUS ONE" to the event?
As much as we would love to accommodate all our friends and family, we have a limited number of guests.
Please understand that this event is strictly by invitation only. Kindly check our invitation to know the number of seats allotted for you. Guests not found on the guest list provided will not be allowed to enter.
Can I sit anywhere at the reception?
Please don't. It took us a lot of effort and discussion to finish the seating arrangement, which is planned for everyone's convenience and preference, but there is no need to worry! You'll surely be seated with your friends or people that you have same interest with.
Our coordinators will gladly assist you in finding your designated seat after registration. Feel free to ask them for assistance and they will gladly help you.
Am I allowed to take pictures and/or videos during the ceremony?
We request everyone to keep the ceremony camera-free. While our I Do’s are unplugged, our reception is not and definitely as a couple who loves pictures, you’ll get tons of options to take your pictures. We prepared for this event wholeheartedly.
May I bring kids at the venue?
We adore your little ones, but this event is reserved for adults only. Consider it a chance to unwind, have fun, and enjoy the celebration.
Thank you for understanding, and we can’t wait to celebrate with you! 🥂✨
RSVP
We’re excited to celebrate this special day with our dearest family and friends!
Please let us know if you can join us.
RSVP on or before
October 30, 2026.
Thank you!